Mama's Day

Everyone always tells you that you'll respect your mother more when you become one yourself. Duh, it's true! My Mom is amazing and is earning more and more credit with me as Kenzie ages. I can't say how many times I've had an "A-ha!" moment of realization about WHY she did something the way she did.

As I struggle to feed Kenzie well, I envision the well-rounded meals my mother made me. I never realized just how difficult it can be to insure all the food groups are present.

As I enjoy making Kenzie clothing, I remember all the little outfits my Mom made for me. She tells me that she made my clothes by hand rather than buying from a store - until I told her to stop. I think she did it out of necessity as she didn't have the financial freedom to run off to a store, as I do. But, just the same - I think the special made outfits are so much better today for my girl.

I also remember going to bed when it was still light outside. Although Kenzie has a routine bedtime of 8:00, I now understand why some days my mom insisted on an early bedtime. It's called sanity. And sometimes a mother just needs those kid(s) to go. to. bed. already.

My mom was an excellent role model for how I wish to parent Kenzie. I've just become an at-home parent myself, as my mother always was - and I full heartedly believe that I'm the best person to fill Kenzie's days. My mother made a lot of sacrifices to be an at-home parent and thus far, I haven't sacrificed much (aside from a lucrative salary and the fullfillment of leading a challenging job).

My mom was (and is) very artsy/crafty as well, and I imagine I found passion in that through her example. She invested her energies in making things for sale - and I'm lucky enough to do it out of sheer enjoyment. So, I find myself pondering our similarities, yet different purposes. I admire her strength, being a Cancer survivor, and a woman who has weathered numerous challenges. She's much more of a woman than I can truly admit to being - and I absolutely admire her.

Happy Mother's Day Mom. I'm happy you're my mom..my friend...and role model. I love you!!